Never Has Been Never Will Be (Part 1)

Is the world so corrupted now that love rarely exists? Are we too hurt to trust? Times have changed and things aren't the same. Finding love is almost impossible now days. You think you found somebody, you invest time into them, you invest money into them, you cut off other people to focus on that person... then BAM everything falls apart. OR you have a person of interest, but you cannot let your guard down. If you don't let your guard down how can you give that person a fair chance though, right? So you decide to be open minded and give that person the benefit of the doubt... only to realize you shouldn't have taken the wall down, you should have waited for them to climb over it.

Everybody deserves to be loved. Everybody deserves to have at least one person who they can trust and depend on. Billions of people in the world and yet there are still good people who are single, good people who are heart broken. So should we give up? WE = the good people who deserve to have somebody, by the way. Should we continue to add bricks to our wall until the wall is so high you cannot see what is on the other side? Should we stay guarded at all times or should we open up to those who seem like they MAY deserve a chance? This world is full of so many games. People act like they have no choice but play with emotions and see how far they can take it with that person. As much as would I like to remain optimistic about love and trust... I continually am proven right. Love is rare & trust is almost extinct. People are too hurt to care about your feelings. People are too selfish to want to make you happy. Don't trust anybody too soon because you never know what their true intentions are. If you have your guard up, keep it up. Letting it down is setting yourself up for pain.

Love is easy to give but hard to receive. LOVE IS: an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Love is easily confused with lust. Love is a chemical reaction. Love is a choice. Love is a gift. If you are fortunate enough to experience this gift, cherish it. If you go searching for love you will not find what is meant to be yours. Love is not fair. Love has been disrupted by hate. Love has been tormented by lies. Love suffers...love dies. They say love is blind... I think love sees what it wants to see. Love sees the good in people. Love believes in others. Love is hopeful. Love is naive. Love is for them, not for me. Never has been, never will be.